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All Things Strawberry

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Fresh strawberries are a rare fruit this part of Nebraska. Sure, we can find them in the grocery stores, but I mean sun ripened, fresh picked, juicy berries. 

When I was growing up, it was a common thing to visit a local strawberry patch open for picking. And oh, I miss that! There’s just no strawberry farms locally. The few that are within an hour or two away have prices that scare me away. 

Many years ago, our family picked strawberries to fill orders for Mausts Strawberry Farm in Accident, Maryland.  We’d leave early and pick before it got too hot. Mom would pack cereal boxes and milk in a cooler. Breakfast was completed with a side of fresh berries. I’m the little girl in blue and suspicious I wasn’t much help🤭 This is a picture of an old scrapbooked photo, hence the caption.

L-R  Faith, Jonathan, Emanuel, Nathan, Me, Millard

The first few years we lived in Nebraska, I’d get a stock pile of strawberries from Aldi, when the price dropped as low as 99 cents a box. Yet it still repulsed me to put store bought berries in my freezer! The past couple years now, they’ve never dropped that low (thanks inflation) so I’ve not put any strawberries in the freezer.

Some weeks ago I began dreaming and praying about fresh strawberries. Fresh strawberry desserts and strawberry jam…. my mouth nearly watered with anticipation! I knew of a farm many hours away that sold them for $2. a pound. My dreams were just that. Dreams. All my lofty plans to travel and see relatives while in the process of acquiring red berries, crashed down (as feared) when my logical hubby started figuring travel expenses combined with the cost of berries. He checked into other farms within a few hours drive, but like I mentioned, the price was enough to drive any budget conscious person away!

But God still answered my prayer! I was able to aquire 14 quarts of fresh strawberries without traveling anywhere! Last week, my in laws, Luke and Arlene Rhodes came out to attend the local funeral of Glenn Bender. No, it wasn’t the kind of circumstances you would ask for, but since it’s strawberry season in southern Indiana, I asked her if she could bring me some. I didn’t even have to pay for postage! Although the berries weren’t cheap at all, and were actually over ripe and on the small side, they were wonderful for  strawberry shortcake, delight and jam making!

Now next week, my Mom (from KY) is coming to visit us. Due to my Dad’s unstable health the past years, she hasn’t been able to leave him. But he’s been in good professional care for quite some time now, which makes it possible for her to leave a couple days. It’s been almost 5 years since she was last here. We are quite pleased she has a ride out here, and can you guess?! She plans to (hopefully!) be bringing me 2 or 3 gallons of fresh strawberries!!

And to be on the safe side for berries next Summer? My ever ingenious gardener of a husband went and ordered 50 strawberry plants!! And no, this is not for a ”you pick” patch. It’s for Rhodes family picking! I presented him my fears of weeds and all the work it takes to keep them alive. He calmly assures me, he’ll see after them. Check back with me next year and see if I’ve had my fill of strawberries or strawberry plants!

Here’s a few snapshots of our delightful strawberry desserts we’ve enjoyed the last couple days. They can’t be eaten in silence. There’s always some noisy groans of “mmmmmms” erupting somewhere!

This strawberry shortcake was out of Hope’s Table but substituted with gluten-free flour mix.
Strawberry delight. Everyone already has a recipe right? I kinda thought so, so I won’t bother sharing this one.

Strawberry Lemonade

Doesn’t the very name suggest a sort of summertime tea party kissed with dappling sunshine? An old quilt thrown on lush grass beneath the stately maple. Little girls in pig tails scamper outside clutching plastic cups and the bag of pretzels Mama gave them to enjoy. Inside, the remains of the lemonade making are still strewn on the counter. Their patient mother kindly ignores it and wipes up the sticky spills. Now, if she can have ten minutes of silence and an iced coffee to collect herself, she will be most grateful! Doesn’t that sound refreshing?!

I don’t really have a cut and dried recipe. (How would it be possible to have a cut and dried recipe for liquids anyway?!) Don’t ask me! 

Basically, make a gallon of Country Time Lemonade mix according to directions on canister, but go scant on the water. 

Thaw frozen strawberries (or use fresh) and blend until a nice puree texture.  Add 1 to 2 cups puree per gallon of lemonade. Recently, when I made it for a bridal shower, I did 2 cups puree. It was really good but was more red than pink in color.  Using less puree allows the yellow of the lemonade to shine through better. 

Unless your strawberries already have sugar, then I suggest adding in a bit more to the lemonade to help combat the sourness of the berries.  I don’t know how much I added…. maybe 3/4  cup? Or you can totally use stevia to round out the sweetness.

This lemonade is delicious and so fun and easy to dress up!

When I made this for the bridal shower, I threw in whole, frozen strawberries to help keep it chilled. And you gotta add in a couple lemon slices!

For a healthier version of this, make your usual fresh lemonade with juiced lemons, then stir in the pureed strawberries. I’ve made it both ways. 

Strawberry Jam

This is another one of those nostalgic recipes. I mean, if you grew up Mennonite, did you even eat bread without homemade strawberry jam?! What’s better than a piece of toast from homemade bread, slathered in butter and a well rounded spoonful of Mom’s strawberry jam?

Because Jerald and I don’t handle gluten, we haven’t been eating bread for years (to speak of- here and there a bite or two). Thus, we also eat very little jam. I do make sourdough bread for the children. But very recently I began dabbling with organic, fresh milled wheat for bread making. The flour being fresh milled is key to the vast expanse of vital nutrients found in it. Flours on the shelf are bleached and stripped of nutrients, then synthetic vitamins added back in. A far cry from any health benefits. 

All this to say,  I’m holding my breath to see if we can handle this kind of bread! And if we can, bring on the strawberry jam!

There’s massive amounts of ‘gluten intolerance’ around these days. I don’t say that lightly because I know for a fact how it affects me if I eat regular flour. But stay with me here-  I’ve heard it explained that there are other things in store bought flours that can irritate the gut more than the actual gluten content. So, for many people, organic, fresh milled flour may just be tolerated by them! 🤞

What a long bunny trail to go down to get to the strawberry jam! Today’s jam recipe is quite healthy compared to the normal versions. I just couldn’t stand to make jam for my family using atrocious amounts of sugar, or the boxed Surejell or Certo. Some years ago I saw a recipe using Granny Smith apples for pectin, but since I never made jam anymore, I finally deleted the email.  That’s all it took to need it. Gratefully, Gina Martin sent me the recipe link when I asked her for it. Here it is.

To 3 lbs strawberries, I used 1 ¹/² cup raw sugar and 3 teaspoons Sweet leaf stevia. I wanted it to be sweet enough that you don’t think of it being a healthier version. Plus, I think Sweet leaf brand stevia isn’t super sweet, so it took extra.
Pardon the lighting in these pictures. I made the jam in my basement kitchen which is significantly darker.
Use an extra large kettle to cook the jam because it bubbles up a lot. Here you can see how far it’s come up.
I scrubbed labels off these old jam jars because it was more thrilling to fill clean looking jars. Make a paste of baking soda and oil, rub over sticky labels, let set a few minutes, then scrub off. I also used essential oil and a scrubby. It was hard work, but it made my brain a lot happier.  
Clean jars of healthy strawberry jam bring so much satisfaction. Try it!

And to clarify, since the jam is in jars, this is still freezer jam, not canned. I happen to have an affinity with glass for most food related storage.

SOLE WATER

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We have probably all heard of the importance of rehydrating our body with electrolytes after sweating and strenuous activities in the heat. But instead of reaching for Gatorade or your canister of fancy electroltye powder, let’s take a look at a simple method for mineral and electrolyte intake!

Have you heard of the benefits of Sole?(pronounced so-lay). Sole is simply a concentrated water/salt solution. It is water that has absorbed unrefined sea salt to its full capacity. By making a strong infusion of salt and water, it packs a punch of minerals like potassium, iodine, zinc, copper, magnesium and more.

For years, we’ve been told that salt can be harmful, so drinking concentrated salt water may sound questionable at first. The key is using the correct kind of salt!

So just to be clear- we’re not talking of iodized table salt. That salt is a villain! Stripped of its minerals except for sodium chloride. This kind of salt can cause many problems, including high blood pressure. 

The salt I’m talking about here is unrefined sea salt- Himalayan, Celtic, and Redmond Real salt are all great choices.

Sole has been used for centuries in some countries. Here are some of the scientific benefits of sole water:

* Supports Hydration– our body needs electrolytes to absorb water; sea salt used in sole water has electrolytes. When you add sea salt to your water, it helps your body absorb the water and minerals, which helps to keep you hydrated longer.

* Helps The Body Detox- the minerals in sole aid the body in its natural detoxification. Sole is also naturally antibacterial. 

Do you feel parched in the morning? Here may be partly why:  Our body uses water even as we sleep because then is when it naturally detoxifies and repairs itself. It is important to rehydrate our “working engine” in the morning!

* Boosts Energy- because of the many minerals and stored energy in the salt crystals, it can boost your energy levels. 

* Improves Digestion– Sole helps stimulate digestion, helping with food absorption, weight loss and regularity. It is even used as a colon cleanse.

* Improving Blood Sugar- some people have noticed improvement in their levels after using sole.

* Blood Pressure– people have noticed a reduction in blood pressure from using sole.

* Relieves Muscle Cramps–  We’ve probably all heard how magnesium relieves cramps. And magnesium is one of the key electrolytes in sea salt. No wonder it’s great for cramps! Magnesium itself has loads of health benefits.

* Helps with the alkaline/acidity balance in  the body

* Sole’s high mineral content also makes it great for hair, skin and nail health.

* It can also help dissolve and eliminate sediments that lead to gallbladder and kidney stones.

This list is of sole’s benefits is not conclusive, but hopefully enough to make you want to try it out!

Let’s get on with how to make it; It really couldn’t be more simple!

Basically it’s 1 part sea salt to 3 parts filtered or distilled water.

So for a quart jar, I put in 1 cup salt and 3 cups water. 

For a pint jar: a half cup salt and 1 ¹/² cup water.

Stir well and let set on your counter overnight. By the next morning, the salt should be mostly dissolved. It should still have a fine layer of salt on the bottom. This means the water has absorbed the salt to its full capacity. The sole is now ready to use!

I use Redmond Real salt. We’ve been using this salt for many years.
Use a non-metal spoon to stir it and a plastic or non- metal lid to screw on the jar. 
This is my current sole, showing you the salt layer at the bottom.

If there is no salt left on the bottom by the next morning, add in a bit more salt each day until you get that layer on the bottom of the jar.

To Use Sole- Stir or shake the jar and mix 1 teaspoon sole into a glass of water and drink on an empty stomach first thing in the morning. After a month or two, you can take 2 teaspoons every morning if you’d like. Just be careful not to incorporate too much too quickly. It can cause loose stools or detox headaches. 

And once your body is accustomed to sole, you could totally add in another teaspoon later in the day. Especially if you sweat a lot or feel you need the extra electrolytes. You won’t hardly overdose; if you do, your bowels (or a headache) will notify you.

While sole is super beneficial for anyone, it is wonderful for those who struggle with headaches! This may sound counterintuitive to what I just said about it causing a headache; let me explain.

There can be a hundred reasons for headaches and I’m definitely not diving into that. But dehydration is a leading cause of headaches! You may be constantly chugging the water, but if you’re not replenishing yourself with minerals and electrolytes, your kidneys will simply flush out the excess water and not truly hydrate.

Our family has been drinking distilled water for years and absolutely love it. (And highly recommend!) But I didn’t realize the importance of adding in electrolytes and minerals on a regular basis. It was only in the last year or two that I became aware of this. And in case you’re thinking you will simply drink spring water or something where it still retains its minerals, that is not the answer. You could drink a bathtub full of water and still not get your needed electrolytes/minerals.

So I would highly recommend giving sole a try and see if it erradicates your headaches. It’s inexpensive and oh, so simple!  You’ve got nothing to lose because there are many benefits, even if you don’t notice anything at first.

If it causes headaches, just back off on your dose a bit.  Jerald and I started in with 1 teaspoon for a couple months.  Then I increased it to 2 teaspoons for a couple weeks. Last week I was feeling quite industrious in the health department. A couple times I stirred in a good 2 ¹/² teaspoons sole to my morning water. Headaches troubled me. Honest confession here: as I was writing this blog and reading over my information about sole, I learned there is something like detox headaches from taking too much.🤦‍♀️ Lesson learned!

Sole will last in your cabinet/pantry indefinitely.  It won’t spoil because of the salt’s antibacterial properties.

I have been super pleased in the reduction of headaches that Jerald experiences since incorporating sole into our morning regimen! We know gluten causes him headaches. And his headaches have definitely lessened since he (mostly) cut that out of his diet. But adding sole into his diet has lessened the headaches even more!!

Sole is a wonderful, simple, and inexpensive way to enhance your health. There is no need for those expensive, flavored electrolyte drinks. But of course, if you prefer those, here’s a couple things to look for:

* Make sure they’re not full of sugar or other additives.

* No artificial flavorings or food colorings.

* The potassium level should be higher than the sodium.

Here are three good, clean electrolyte powders if you still prefer that:

Dr. Bergs

Pickleball

Just Ingredients

Summer and hot weather is just around the corner- make sure you’re hydrating well! Remember, electrolytes help your body absorb that water better. So drink up, Chuck!

The Crown of Thorns

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Guest post written by Jerald Rhodes i.e. my husband 😍

Have you ever pondered the crown of thorns that was placed on Jesus’ head on this day several thousand years ago? If you’re like me, you read it in the crucifixion story, make a mental note that it would’ve been painful, and then move on. Recently, I acquired a crown of thorns through the dispersal of my grandfather’s estate (the late Jonas N. Schrock) and decided to do a study into the crown of thorns that was placed on Jesus’ head at his trial. Following is a brief synopsis of what I discovered in that study (followed by the back story on the crown of thorns that was my grandpa’s).

The day of Christ’s trial could be summed up in one word- horrendous. I have read a book or two that go into detail on what actually took place that day and I always come away in awe of what Christ endured physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually; all areas of life that we face! For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin- Hebrews 4:15. If you are interested in reading in depth on the subject, I recommend starting with Lee Strobel’s The Case For Christ.

Thorns are mentioned various times in the Bible and are introduced very quickly. We find them already in the third chapter of Genesis and we learn that thorns are a consequence of sin. You will find this theme fairly consistent throughout the Bible (Paul’s thorn in the flesh is from a different Greek word used only once in the Bible and carries the thought of a bodily annoyance or disability).
Genesis 3:17-18 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the field;
Numbers 33:55 But if ye will not drive out the inhabitants of the land from before you; then it shall come to pass, that those which ye let remain of them shall be pricks in your eyes, and thorns in your sides, and shall vex you in the land wherein ye dwell.
Proverbs 22:5 Thorns and snares are in the way of the froward: he that doth keep his soul shall be far from them.
Hebrews 6:8 But that which beareth thorns and briers is rejected, and is nigh unto cursing; whose end is to be burned

Thorns are an outworking of sin, the very thing that Christ came to earth to conquer! Did the soldiers who made the crown of thorns fully understand that? It is evident that this crown of thorns was to mock Jesus as being a king as well as the purple robe and the reed placed in His right hand. But this crown went way farther than just mocking Jesus for being a king. These thorns were a part of the very curse placed on the devil back in the garden, and he was using them with all his might. While the Roman soldiers were likely happy to see a Jewish king (earthly in their minds) being taken care of and humiliated, the old devil was using these thorns to take another swing at Christ in retaliation for that curse placed upon him.

Praise God those thorns did not prevail and Christ rose victorious from the grave- defeating sin, the devil, and the thorns! What a wonderful gift available to each of us- salvation! For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord- Romans 6:23

When I think of the humility it took for Christ to allow those thorns to be placed on His head, enduring the mockery of his Kingdom, and the curse of sin those thorns represented I am reminded that I have not attained and that I need the continual sanctification process in my life.

Grandpa’s Crown of Thorns

Now for the story on the crown of thorns from my grandpa! I well remember as a boy going to grandpa’s place on a regular basis. Grandpa was a bishop of Mt Joy Mennonite Church in Daviess County Indiana which is where I grew up and attended church until moving here to Nebraska. Grandpa loved to study and there was a room in their house that doubled as a work office and library/study. Above his desk was a library full of books mostly religious in nature that he would use in preparation for his sermons. They covered a wide range of subjects- Bible numerology, eschatology (he was an amillennial), cults, Anabaptist thought, and Bible history to name a few. I am honored to have some of those books in my possession- The Archko Volume (reprinted archeological writings of the Sanhedrin), a 3 volume set of Wuest’s Word Studies from the Greek New Testament, and a reprinted Handbook by Dietrich Phillips.

At the very top of this library hung this crown of thorns. I don’t ever remember it not being there. I don’t ever recall it being taken down and looked at by anyone. In fact I don’t ever recall any conversations around it other than the occasional reference to the fact that it may have been similar to the crown of thorns that Jesus wore. The memory of it hanging there is embedded my mind.

I never really knew the history of where they came from until I met my wife! This crown of thorns was put together by Homer Yoder of Sparta TN who is an uncle to Violet. Soon after we started dating, Homer approached me and asked if my grandpa still had them, which was the first I knew of where they had come from.

Recently, I decided to get some additional history on them, so I called up Homer. For those of you who don’t know him, he’s an unassuming older man residing in the hills of Tennessee. He spends his time making jam there and also has his “mule shed,” where he has an assortment of antiques collected. He answered the phone in his slow, usual drawl. I have only known him part of my life, but the few interactions I’ve had with him have proven him to be the perfect candidate to assemble a crown of thorns in memory of our Savior.

He shared with me that he assembled the crown of thorns in approximately 1965 or 66 while a youth living in Morrison, TN. After listening to a compelling Communion message one Sunday, he then went out into the woods and assembled the crown of thorns in memory of what his Savior had gone through! The crown of thorns then took a place on a shelf, and he went on with life.

There were only 3 families living in that small Mennonite community at that time- Denver Yoders (Homer’s dad/Violet’s grandpa), Henry Yoders, and Levi Millers.** Being a small community, they did not have a resident bishop, so my grandfather was filling the role of bishop for them at the time. Grandpa made numerous trips down to Tennessee, and on one such trip, he went to baptize a class of applicants, Homer being one of them (as well as Violet’s dad Millard). Homer then presented the crown of thorns as a gift of appreciation to Grandpa for baptizing him!

The crown of thorns is approaching 60 years of age. I plan to hang it above the desk in my office as a remembrance of Grandpa, Homer, and most of all, my Savior.

**The settlement in Morrison, TN only lasted 3-4 years before it disbanded with Denver Yoders and Henry Yoders moving to Altamont, TN and Levi Millers moving to Foxworth, MS

Tea Parties

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Gratefully, our family has been spared severe sickness this winter. When I hear of the flus and fevers ravaging other communities while we were hardly touched with illness, I feel blessed indeed!

We are, however, coming down with fever. Spring fever that is. Dappling sunshine and 70ish temperatures beg us to be outdoors.   This weather has teased us with pleasantries of summer. With this sort of malady comes the mood for outdoor parties…. fire up the grill and bring on the sweet tea! But common sense tells us to “hold our horses“; I dare say we will have a cold snap or two yet.

And so it is, I’ve been dreaming of a tea party. This one would be served in our grainbin gazebo. In that respect, it will be some time before I accomplish it, since the weather and wind must comply, along with my schedule. I  certainly don’t get half the dreams accomplished that enter my head, but if I can put into action one-fourth of them, I’ll call it good. 

It’s always a great idea to connect with friends. But it takes intentionality on both parties to connect on heart levels. Hosting a tea party is one way to interact and learn to know people better outside of the “after church small talk.”

Tea parties are not something I do often, but always find it to be a blessing! It is work, for sure, but the benefits of giving and good conversations are worth it. I also love seeing friends enjoy the benefits of my labors.  It is like therapy for me to decorate. And yet another big percentage of the enjoyment is searching for recipes and decor. Musing on what delicacies to put on the menu and how to improve the aesthetics of my table without breaking the grocery or time budget. Now don’t get me wrong here- I’m not advocating wild, exotic menus! It’s fun to dream, of course, but I’m well aquainted with reality, which tends to keep me on ground level. Making doable foods look delectable is more like it. Something like crepes with fruit glaze, avocado toast, or yogurt parfaits. Even serving soup is fine! It is better to keep the food simple and enjoy your friends than to have such high ideals you never get around to hosting.

Here’s a few tea party pictures to get you inspired. 

I hosted this for my prayer partners group a little over a year ago. This was extremely simple, yet fresh and spring-like. The flowers weren’t exactly what I wanted, but it was what I found and made do. The candles and runner were things I had on hand.

It was a chilly evening, so I served Zuppa Toscana soup, artisan sourdough, individual toss salads, and punch. It was nothing fancy and time-consuming like cheesecake or scones, but that is always fun if you’re up to the challenge!

Zuppa Toscana

I used the recipe in Hope’s Table. It’s a simple chicken broth/ground sausage base with diced potatoes, seasonings, cream and kale. Hearty and filling and definitely one of our favorites!

The punch was simply one cup Countrytime pink lemonade mix, one 48 ounce pineapple juice and one 2 liter Sprite or 7-Up. Stir together for a beautiful and refreshing drink!

The following tea party I hosted one year in September or October. I served fresh grapes, avocodo toast with bacon & cheese, crepes with a raspberry sauce and pumpkin scones. I’ve not made scones much at all, so did a practice run the night before. They were drool worthy! So I made another batch, formed and cut them, then refrigerated overnight. The next morning, I could pop them in the oven for quick, yummy goodness!

This next party was not one I hosted or helped with. Last October, I was invited to this backyard party, ate delicious food and completely enjoyed the evening!

Renita Plank hosted this in her backyard underneath their lovely pergola. Credits to her and Jolene Miller for this rustic and gorgeous party. And yes, they told us to wear white or ivory dresses!

Photo credits Jolene Miller

They had put down a tarp of sorts and then set up the pallet table on that, with pillows for seating. Dried flowers/weeds and random lanterns scattered down the center, turned this into a delightful scene!

They made these huge bread bowls for serving the broccoli cheese soup in. We also ate veggies and dip and skewers with basil, tomato and fresh mozzarella cheese. Then scones and coffee for dessert. The drink was a mixture of apple juice and Sprite/7-Up. I’ve also made this drink a few times. If I recall correctly, I mixed 1 can apple juice concentrate to one 2 liter Ginger Ale. Sprite or 7-Up works too. This is such a simple, but over the top delicious drink! Not that I’m a soda drinker, but you can always get the sugar free soda versions to cut back on sugar! 🤫

How are you feeling by now? Are you too plagued with spring fever? Get yourself a big bouquet of daffodils or tulips. While you’re savoring their beauty on your table, share them with friends! Throw on a cheerful tablecloth, get out your pretty dishes, bake some muffins, brew the coffee and have somebody over. It doesn’t require perfection at all! A willing spirit will do. And you just might find it therapeutic to arrange those flowers and candles. To garnish the muffins and serve tea in China cups.  I definitely hope you find the therapeutic benefits of heart to heart chatting with friends! 🤍

How I Met My Hubby

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This week marks the anniversary of our first date!❤️ Come along for the story….

How many of you caught your first glimpse of your future spouse at an international airport? And then boarded the same flight for the far north- The Last Frontier?

That was Jerald’s experience.  I never saw him until baggage claim in Anchorage.  And I thought he looked a little fierce. 🤭 I had never, in all my 23 years, ever saw such blonde eyebrows and eyelashes like this fellow had!

In September of 2008, I flew with my parents to Anchorage, Alaska, with our final destination being at a small church in Sterling.  My dad had pastoral responsibilities at that church, and this weekend, they were having baptism. Jerald was also there that weekend so that he could be of assistance in flying with his elderly Grandpa, who wanted  to attend the baptism of his two grandchildren, Jaden and Jessica.

Jerald immediately noticed this young lady from Alabama. As for her, she thought he was an average fellow. Wasn’t inspired by him or anything. Jerald flew home feeling sad because he wondered what chance will he have to ever meet her again?! I was Beachy, he was Mennonite. Not much chance for interaction. But he certainly didn’t forget! Instead, he prayed about her nearly every day for a whole year. 

Almost a year later, August of 2009, the girl from Alabama was headed up to Sterling, Alaska once again.  This time to teach at the small church school.

And how I remember that eventful trip! To be sure, I was in tears be-times. First off, our plane got way laid in Huntsville for whatever reason, thus missing my connecting flight in Atlanta. As I de-planed in Atlanta, I forgot to pick up my carry-on that was stowed under the aircraft until I was a good many steps away.  Retrieving rapidly, thank God I found it! Then rushed on to my gate, wondering how in the world I’ll manage finding my way,  besides re-booking a flight, all by myself! Atlanta Airport is not for the faint-hearted such as I, but what could be done?! Navigating trams and walkways and bustling humanity, I sped through the airport, trying to look dignified as possible, while anxieties clamored my brain, and the strap on my bag almost murdered my shoulder! I had way overstuffed my large duffle bag and was certainly paying for it! But I had a Heavenly Father who was watching over His flustered little girl. I don’t remember how long I waited, but my next flight was rescheduled yet for that day. And I flew first class with no extra charge!

Now I had never flown in first class before, so was quite unaccustomed to the flare. There was more than enough space to stretch my weary legs. I don’t remember the food that was served, but I do remember, partially through the flight, the attendants brought out warm, wet rags. I discreetly observed the man next to me as to how or what this was for.  He washed his face, so I did the same. He tried visiting with me earlier and much as I endeavored to be social, the tears kept coming in my weary, emotional state. As I sat comfortably in my spacious seat, I remember opening cards that home folks had sent with me and money kept falling out. This brought tears as well because I certainly did not have financial security.  But God was showing me, He will supply my needs!!

It was around midnight by the time I arrived in Anchorage, if I recall correctly.  My cousins, Luis and Savilla came to pick me up in his dark green, crew cab diesel Ford, which was supposedly a cool truck. We had 2 hours to drive to Sterling. Fatigue was rampant and Luis got stopped by a police for weaving!  Once again, God granted safety, and in the wee morning hours, we finally arrived at my uncle’s place, Calvin and Judith Yoder. 

I remember entering the dark house and being shown where I would sleep.  The cookstove put off a cozy warmth. Coming from the humid South, I marveled at needing heat in late August!

As I prepared for bed, I noticed my shoulders were black and blue; thanks to the overstuffed, aforementioned bag! But what was that to me? At last, I had arrived and could sink under the cozy covers.

And what do you know?! Once again Jerald and I met, but just barely.  He was up there for a month or so that summer, helping build his uncle Marvin Schrock’s house.  Particularly, he was working on finishing out the apartment above their garage for my co- teacher Norma Troyer and I to stay in. Hmmm, isn’t that sweet?? He was already preparing a place for me to live, long before we were married!

Jerald was scheduled to fly back home to Indiana about 2 days after I arrived. His intent was to ask me out when I arrived to the area. But the timing didn’t feel right. So he went home, more discouraged than ever. But still, he kept praying. I, of course, was completely oblivious to this all.

I honestly am not even sure I saw him that time.  Perhaps a glance from a distance… I do remember Norma taking me over to Marvin’s that first evening. I think we toured the apartment, but it wasn’t totally completed yet. 

There was a hub of activity around there with men putting in water lines or some sort of underground pipes. Children slopping around outside. I had to pay close attention to where I stepped because there was mud everywhere! Not an understatement. I was wearing new white sneakers, not muck boots! Everything was all so back-woodsy and down to earthish.

About nine-thirty or ten, someone suggests running out to town for McDonald’s ice cream cones. I believe they were 50 cents a cone for the summer. Whoever heard of striking out for town at this time of the night! But hey, we were in the land of the midnight sun, so why not! This was all jolting me into the, what have I gotten myself into, type of thoughts, but I joined in with a smile on my face and a tiredness within.

In about a week I settled into the newly finished apartment, and into the school routine. I had enough to keep me occupied and aside from getting homesick, I loved my life up north.

Mid-January (2010) rolls around and here comes Jerald Rhodes again, working for his uncle for another month.  He had definite motives this time. After seeing him a couple times and listening to him having devotions at church once, I finally noticed him and began praying about him. I was always rather peeved at these young guys who would try so hard to act cool.  I knew I didn’t want any of the sort. But this fellow had more to him! He seemed like a straight shooter. I enjoyed youth activities while he was there, but still, we basically ignored each other. My idea for this was, if I flirted with a guy before dating,  how could I be sure this was really God’s will for me? Or was it only our infatuation of each other that was bringing us together? I didn’t want a lifetime of doubt to nag me if I had made the correct decision. I can confidently say I was not doing anything to get his attention. This was the Lord’s doings, and it was marvelous in our eyes!

And then it was February and Valentine’s day!

Now you must realize something. Jerald was not about to write a letter to ask me out. He would ask in person! And he didn’t need anybody’s help! He kept waiting for a chance to catch me alone.  He so badly wanted to ask me on Valentine’s Day, which was also on a Sunday. But it didn’t work out! Remember, no help needed- he would not arrange anything through another person for me to meet him so he could ask me! 

So he keeps waiting. And the time of his departure crept closer!!

At last! Tuesday morning he caught me!

He lived with Marvin’s in their shouse, while I lived in the apartment above the garage in the new house that was being built during this time which was just up the hill from their shouse. Jerald was up there working on the house every day. It always gave me a little adrenalin rush if I caught a glimpse of him whenever I arrived home from school.

On this morning, he heard my Jeep start up and knew I’d be leaving for school very shortly. I always let it run a bit to warm up while I ran back upstairs to finish my morning routines. 

After brushing my teeth and gathering my bags,  I hurried down the stairs. I thought I heard someone come into the garage while I was up there; I sorta hoped it was him. Not that we’d talk or anything, but maybe we could say hi. 

I was slipping into my shoes when Jerald pounces on me with a hearty “good morning!” Immediately, he broaches the subject- “I was wondering, would you like to begin a special friendship with me?!“

And I- startled by this heavy question at 7:30 A.M. tried to keep my composure and calmly replied that I’d like to pray about it. I skiddled out the door, absolutely shocked and still reeling from the question! I mean, I had no idea! How could this be?!

I called my Dad as soon as I was headed out the lane. I started in on what just happened and burst out crying. Dad quickly assured me he knew all about it. Jerald had already asked for his blessing for a close friendship with his daughter. Dad felt comfortable in letting the decision up to me.

Throughout that day, I replayed that tiny interchange between Jerald and I dozens of times! I was thrilled! Somehow, it just felt right! Yet I hardly knew him! Definitely prayed much about it.

Nervously, I gave him my “yes” the next afternoon. I also gave him a poem that I had written about God’s unique ways of leading us together. We didn’t have much time before he would be flying back home. We had our first date very soon. 

Now let me interject here. You may think that only a day and a half is a very short time to consider the quest for courtship. But when we are earnestly seeking God’s will for the unknowns in our lives, He will give clear answers at the appropriate time. Unbeknownst to either of us, we had both been doing just that. He had been praying about me every day for more than a year! And I had been praying more in earnest the previous year or two that if there was a decent fellow out there for me that God would bring him into my life. After talking with my dad and feeling a strong leading from the Lord, who was I to prolong the situation or the suspense of the fellow inquiring?! Now your situation may be different! However, when after seeking counsel from others and feeling a strong sense of God’s guidance (in any situation), why prolong the hours, days, or weeks to accomplish His plan?

It was exhilarating to be taken out for supper, who cares if we were driving my Jeep. He didn’t have a vehicle up there. We chatted but I soon figured out he wasn’t overly talkative. I was nervous in the silences. But he soon figured out when I get comfortable, is when I get really talkative.

After we ate our supper and went to pay,  Jerald discovered his debit card would not work and he had no cash. Humbly, he asks me if I had any money.  Grateful to be of service, I assured him I did! And so it is,  I paid for our meal on our first date!! I can’t recall if he returned the money later or not, but we were in love just the same! 

A week later, I sadly bid him goodbye after I dropped him off at the Keni airport. Now, we would simply write letters or possibly call once every week or two. I did not have texting on my phone. Yes, I assure you, it is possible to court without constant texting/messaging or seeing each other several times a week!! Reading his letters and cards, I constantly kept wondering how it could be that this nice fellow actually liked me?! I marveled when he told me how long he prayed about me before he ever managed to ask me!

The next time we saw each other was mid-May after I was back home in Alabama from teaching. Of course we were thrilled to see each other again!

Summertime dating days

It was a definite God thing how He brought us together. We dated a little over a year until we got married in May 2011. I moved to his community in Southern Indiana.

So there’s kinda alot of states involved in our situation. He from Indiana. I from Alabama.  Met and began dating in Alaska.  Got married in Alabama. Settled in Indiana for the  first 7 years.  And now we’re raising our family in Nebraska! (.. for I have learned in whatsoever state I am therewith to be content! Philippines 4:11)

Who can know the mysterious ways of God?!

On a different note- the winner of the tuberoses was Mckensey Wise of Barbourville, KY! 🤗 Congratulations!!🎊

And a special thanks to all those who participated in the drawing! I always enjoy hearing from my readers! ❤️

Flower Giveaway!

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We just survived some massive winter weather last month! We had subzero temperatures and copious amounts of snow blowing into substantial drifts. Our barn doorway was almost completely drifted over. County roads were unpassable. The snow plows finally quit going because the wind blew drifts stronger and faster than they could keep up. Most people who were housebound or should’ve been housebound! It was unwise to risk being caught off the road in this kind of weather. It wasn’t safe to be out longer than 10 or 15 minutes with the wind chill at 20-30 below zero! But we still went out for chicken chores and fresh air every day. I feel it’s a version of excitement to experience dipping temperatures for a short time.

Our barn doorway

To be sure, it was the kind of winter to keep in the memory department for storytelling to grandchildren. You know how grandparents always survived epically dramatic times. Well, we are now prepared for those kind of stories!

And now here we are; just a couple weeks later, with sunny skies and a warm 60 degree breeze that hints at spring! I know it can’t stay but we’ll enjoy it while it lasts! I’m airing my house at the moment – it feels absolutely delicious to replace those stale, germ laden particles with fresh, new sustance!

I’m not a garden geek. However, the freshness of earthy soil and spring flowers popping up are some of the simple pleasures in life that I think every soul loves. (At least, I’ve never heard one say, “Oh, those yellow tulips are soooo depressing! When I see them, I know winter is about gone, and it makes me weep to see those snow piles melting!”)

Back in the good old days when I was a spry, young bride, a friend graciously gave me a start of some of the most beautiful bulbs! Well, let’s say flowers. Bulbs aren’t necessarily lovely; we simply like what they promise!

Unless you’re from the south, I know we’re all a long way from planting flower bulbs! But virtuous gardeners always plan well in advance, don’t they? I’m attempting to be virtuous in getting this post out long before Spring.

Have you heard of tuberoses? Some might call them tubelilies. They are little pearl type of blooms, clumped together on a stem. The bottom ones always open first, while the top blooms are still squeezed shut. It’s a sorrow they don’t all bloom at once! But I pluck them anyway, discarding the bottom blooms as the upper ones open.

The tuberose is actually a southern flower that grows well in hardiness zones 7-11. Here in Nebraska we are zone 5b so they have to be dug up each fall or they will freeze in the winter. They take the heat well but do enjoy frequent watering and will grow to a height of 2-3′. Be sure to plant them where you can conveniently sniff the luscious fragrance!

Each summer, I highly anticipate these delicate, fragrant blooms! I go out in the golden, evening sunlight, sniffing and snipping. I promise you, they always smell strongest in the evening! Even when I have bouquets in my house, they give off the most fragrance at night. I’m not wise enough to give the science behind that, though.

I have given starts of these tuberoses away multiple times. It’s one of those things in life that keep multiplying as you give it away. Kind of like Love. Which reminds me of Valentines day, which tells me it’s already February!! Who’s sad to see winter disappear? Anybody? See, what did I tell you?! Silence gives consent. Let’s get on to the Spring topic at hand.

If you would like a chance at growing some, then you’re at the right place! It’s been a while since I did a giveaway, so I have decided to bless someone with a start of these through a drawing. To participate, please take the following actions-

  • Send an email to jeraldsflower@gmail.com with your full name and mailing address.
  • Share with me what you enjoy most about the blog.
  • Do not put your info in the comments section of this post. If subscribed via email, do not respond to this email. You will need to send your name and address to the email above.
  • I will only ship to a US address.
  • All entries must be submitted by February 10, 2024

Keep dreaming of Spring!

Margin

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It’s January, folks! Who’s housecleaning and decluttering this month? Clutter free, restful  spaces are so worth the effort it takes to achieve them! In fact, if your house is cluttered, there’s a very good chance your life and brain are cluttered as well. You can read more about decluttering and minimalism here.

Years ago, I was reading a book on organization. The writer brought out the point of how necessary it is to have margin in our spaces if we want things to be organized. This thought has always stuck with me.

The dictionary defines margin as a spare amount or measure allowed or given for contingencies or special situations.

So imagine with me that the pages in a book had no margin but were completely crammed full to the brim with words. No extra space was given. Would it be pleasing to read such a book? Indeed not! It would be totally overwhelming!

Or think of a book shelf that’s crammed so tightly, you can’t even slide a book in its rightful place. Few people will take the time to carefully pull the books apart to find a spot to slide it in place. The most popular method is to simply plop the book on top of the other books and expect magic (or mom) to put it away properly. 

But what if you kept that spare amount of space beyond what is needed, and that shelf is only three-fourths of the way full? Now you can easily slide the book in its place, no problem. Plus, the looks of that shelf are pleasant to the eyes.

If we have every spot in our homes filled to the brim, it will become crowded and overwhelming. For most of us, the truth is that we don’t need a bigger house; we need less stuff! 

As we keep margin in our drawers, closets and pantries, we will find it much easier to keep organization in place. That extra space beyond what is needed will go a long way to keeping it orderly. Sure, we still need to maintain our spaces and keep after those stray pieces floating around. But it’s much easier to quickly organize things a bit when you’ve got extra space to work with! If you don’t believe me, try organizing clutter in a tiny spot. Remember, if you’re not willing to part with any clutter, you will simply be “stuff shifting” instead of organizing. I love the saying-  the easiest way to organize your stuff is to get rid of most of it! There’s a lot of truth to that!

I’m going to share a couple of pictures around our home that display margin.

This is in our living room. I could have a motto yet on either side of the shelf or even have more decor on the shelf. Plus, a stand beside the couch with a lamp and magazines. Or four pillows on the couch instead of two. Would it still look nice? I think it would look pretty “stuffy.”
This storage cabinet is in our dining room. I enjoy decorating but have learned that less decor is much more restful to the eyes than having it well filled.
This is my kitchen. Somebody’s gonna say my kitchen is way too bare,  but do you think I care? No! 🤣 I have much more space when I cook and bake, plus I love the fresh, clean feel of cleared off counters! I used to have a lot more on top of my cabinets too.
This is my pantry.  The baskets help much to keep order. But the most recent ime I organized it, I got rid of two baskets, and have loved the extra space it gives! It’s super handy for those temporary extras that I want to stick away somewhere. I still have to keep after it, but having this margin definitely helps! 

So what if we gave ourselves margin not only in our houses but also in our calendars and schedules? Giving ourselves margin in our lives gives us permission to pause and enjoy the golden sunbeams streaming in the window. To look in your child’s eyes and listen closely to their chattery talk. Unhurried. To chat with our neighbor or spend extra time with a friend who needs a listening ear. To embrace the moment. We can even tend to the tasks at hand with more love and detail. All because we are not hurried and harried!

This is something I’m trying to implement in my life.  How much more smooth and less stressful things are when we give ourselves those 10 extra minutes to get to town. Those 5 extra minutes to get everyone out the door or those extra minutes alotted to supper preparations are so worth it! One way we ourselves practice this is to arrive at church by 9:15. This gives us 15 minutes of margin, should we have delays.

Avoid over filling your social calendar. Make you and your family’s life as stable and predictable as possible. Children thrive and feel most secure in normalcy! And dare I say most adults do too?! There may be the peculiar few who love the “fly by night” experiences on a regular basis, but most of us do well on routines and schedules!

When we’ve already been gone two days this week, can we say “no” to another day of being gone? There is a fine line between sacrifice and selfishness, and I’m not advocating that we always put our own needs first. But it is good to remember that our own families are our first responsibility and shouldn’t be shrugged off easily.  When we give ourselves that needed space to stay home and take care of our responsibilities, it does much to lower stress.

But it takes intentionality to keep our schedules from overload! Can we say “no” to another shopping day or coffee date with friends? I hope so! I realize though, that many times, there are legitimate reasons for our days of being gone. Church and school related activities are beyond our control. And we certainly should support these events if at all possible. Prioritizing is super important when it comes to those busy seasons. Then is when it’s necessary to keep projects at home to a minimum so we’re able to give our support to the church. 

I set up a daily schedule for myself to try this year, with plenty of margin. (I’m not perfect with it) and it takes discipline to follow, but how much better my days go when I do! It takes discipline to stop my work and go take a nap. To stop that sewing (which I love) and go start cooking supper (which I don’t particularly love.)

I’m not talking about a schedule so rigid we can’t deviate- we do need to be flexible. And that’s what margin is for. As we allow extra time for those interruptions and unexpected things that come up, we can handle the day with lower levels of blood pressure and stress.

Whether it’s in our homes or schedules, overload generally happens by default. Margin, on the other hand, involves action and discipline to achieve and maintain. But oh, the freedom it brings!

Let all things be done decently and in order.

1 Corinthians 14:40

Redeemer Of Hearts

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Some weeks ago, I was shopping in Hobby Lobby. This is one store that can rapidly bring on ‘needs’ that we were quite unaware we had before entering. The store also has a sly way of bringing on discontent, if we’re not careful. (Yes, discontent, not discount as my auto correct thought I wanted!) Although they have that as well, which tends to increase the ‘needs’!

I wasn’t looking for much; I wanted to browse their Christmas decor and look for placemats  to make pillow covers for the couch. I was pleased to find some on sale with a touch of Christmas color.

To transform from placemat to pillow cover, simply rip open one of the narrow ends, zigzag the two edges to keep from fraying, sew velcro at the opening, insert pillow and voila’, you’ve got a new look for your pillow! 

As I strolled the aisles, the Christmas grinch was all over in the decorations. How disgusting. As if Santa and the reindeer, trees, ornaments and socks aren’t enough to distract from the real reason of Christmas, now there’s the ugly, old grinch yet too! Ok, he was around before, but this is the first year I noticed him. I can certainly make do quite well without him!

Satan doesn’t care what distracts us from Jesus. As long as he distracts us, he’s pleased. Maybe we don’t have all the fanfare of Christmas displays as our neighbors do, but what about the fanfare of overloaded schedules and dining tables? The overload of gifts, the stress of baking every single kind of cookie because that’s just how we’ve always done it!

For far too many people, Christmas has become a god of pleasure seeking, inordinate gift buying, (and may I say inordinate food making and eating?!) stress, discontent, hurry and worry. Certainly, we can enjoy special foods we only make for the holidays, but we don’t need to make every kind of special food every year, do we?!

It’s not my intention to cause guilt for anyone. There are circumstances that we can not control. But there are things we can control, and one of those is the issues of our own heart. Guard your heart with active intentionality! Cut out unnecessary activities and senseless decorating. If you’re feeling irritated at the overloaded schedule, ask Jesus what you could cut out. What is most important to Him? He will give wisdom and direction if we ask.

It saddens me how much Santa, gifts, lights, trees and festivities have become the focus of Christmas more than that of Jesus’ birth!

Christmas is Jesus leaving His heavenly throne; coming to earth through the miraculous virgin birth, as a tiny, helpless babe, to save His people from their sins!

Jesus is the Redeemer of hearts! He’s the Bringer of peace, the Healer of the sick, the God of all Comfort! There’s no greater gift than the gift of Jesus, our Saviour, redeeming sinful man! Praise to God for this gift of all gifts!

Is Jesus your Redeemer?

Gifting Outside The Box

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With the rapid approach of the biggest holiday of the year, how many thousands of people are spending millions of dollars on gift giving?

Gift giving is not wrong. In fact, a giving heart is a character trait of God’s children. Giving gifts doesn’t automatically make one a Christian, but as God’s children, we will be giving people. Who doesn’t love kindhearted, generous people?

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning. James 1:17

Our heavenly Father loves to bestow His children with abundant gifts. He is truly the best gift Giver there ever was or ever will be! He gave His absolute best gift when He sent His only begotten son into the world. Let’s never forget the sacrifice He made when He sent heaven’s best and allowed Him to die for us poor sinners! He’s done so much for us; can we not pass His love on to others?

It’s the lavish hoarding of things here in the ease of the American lifestyle that repulses me! When there are millions of people around the globe living without the bare necessities! Could we, instead of spending so much money on things nobody really needs, give that amount of money to go towards the needy around us or in other countries? The Lord sees your heart and will bless you for giving!

In today’s post, I would like to explore two methods of giving that will not break the bank and will not add more clutter into the life of the receiver. Far too many of the gifts given today are simply unnecessary gadgets, toys, etc that we don’t really need and only add clutter to our homes and lives (minimalism anyone?) Read on to find new ways of giving that will truly bless the lives of others!

Acts of Service

Acts of Service are small (or large) deeds of kindness that only require a loving heart and physical effort. They don’t break the bank and often times these gifts are far more appreciated than material items that are so often given. And don’t forget these are not limited to the holiday season; they can be done year round!

  • Give someone a compliment.
  • Give someone an encouraging card. Yes, take time to write it out and send it the old-fashioned way. Postal service still works!
  • Bless someone with encouragement in a text message.
  • Offer to take another person’s turn cleaning the church house.
  • Bless a Mama by offering to babysit her children for a day or a couple hours. Not because she’s busy but because she’s a mama. (You won’t be turned down!)
  • Make a list of things you appreciate about a person and give it to them.
  • Offer to take the children to school for a busy family for a week or couple days.
  • Clean windows for an elderly couple. (Or anyone!) Who wouldn’t enjoy clean windows without exerting the energy involved!
  • Offer to babysit your minister’s children some evening so they can enjoy a date night. The hassle of lining up a sitter or feeling guilty for bothering someone is a real thing.
  • Print or design (if you’re good with creative writing) a Bible verse on card stock. Bless someone with an inspiration to display in their home or work place.
  • Bless someone with a casserole or main dish just because. Don’t procrastinate because you don’t have time to make a full meal. When you are preparing a meal for your family, just double the recipe and you have a gift ready for giving! You could even stick it in the freezer to give to someone at a later date. To make it more special, buy a pretty casserole dish to put it in and tell them it’s theirs to keep.

Consumable Gifts

Consumable gifts are a great way to gift someone with a tangible gift that does not create clutter or require storage for long term (ever think about that gift you got that you didn’t need so you put it in storage where you don’t even use or enjoy it? Minimalism anyone?!) Consumable gifts can often fulfill an immediate need in the life of the receiver. Again, these ideas are not limited to the holiday season, you can give them year round.

  • Drop off a special drink for someone going through a difficult time, or just because
  • A box of groceries for a family struggling financially
  • Order pizza for a family and send it via pizza delivery or door dash. Have fun texting them that their supper will be delivered!
  • Fill a gallon size ziploc with water bottle, gospel tracts, McDonald’s gift card, toothbrush and toothpaste, pair of socks, pair of gloves, granola bars etc. Keep these in your vehicle and pass out to the homeless beggars on the street corners.
  • Give gift cards and/or cash to a family with a loved one in the hospital. It takes a lot of gas and food for being in and out of a hospital for an extended time.
  • Another idea is to give a basket filled with easy mixes/quick meals and fun foods (for the children) if there’s a family member hospitalized.
  • Ask a friend (or anyone you want to improve relationship with) to meet you for coffee/breakfast/ lunch to simply chat and listen to what’s going on in their lives. Then pay for their food.
  • Give money or gift cards to a missionary family for use on their furlough.
  • If you do your own butchering and have plenty of meat on hand, bless a needy family (or anyone) with a few pounds of fresh beef, sausage, or venison.
  • Give money to pay a seamstress for new dresses (or sew them yourself) for a struggling or busy family
  • Tell your neighbor to meet you at the gas station and you will pay to fill their tank.

Christmas Plates

Do you like to give your neighbors and friends a Christmas food plate? There’s already an endless supply of sweets and chocolates this time of year, so why not give something “outside the box”? Many elderly are diabetic or have special diets so keep that in mind and try to give accordingly.

  • Basket of fresh fruit
  • Jar of homemade granola
  • Jar of homemade soup
  • Jar of homemade (or boughten) relish or pepper jelly, along with a box of crackers
  • Homemade bread or dinner rolls along with a jar of jam
  • Jar of mixed nuts- although be considerate of the elderly or someone with false teeth. This will not be a good gift for them.
  • Homemade casserole in foil pan
  • Special spices – someone who enjoys cooking would love this!
  • Body products such as sugar scrubs, soap bars, lip butters, bath bombs, etc. Homemade always makes it special, but if that’s not your thing, there are plenty of safe, clean body products available without the typical synthetics.
  • Sweet tea, green tea, or iced coffee concentrate

The ideas in this post are collected from a couple different resources, with some of them my own experiences. But just to clarify, although I enjoy practical, consumable gifting, I’ve certainly not done all these. Just so nobody thinks I’m this astronomical giver!😂

Gluten Free Flour

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Here’s to a quick post about the gluten-free cup-4-cup flour mix I have been using for quite some time.

I use it in so many recipes because it can be replaced cup for cup for all purpose flour! How wonderful is that?! This recipe is not original with me, and I give credit to Tina Hershberger, author of two wonderful cook books, Simple Foods and Simple Cooking. She has very worthwhile information in her books, besides many simple, tasty recipes! I also like that she spells out the recipes in a simple manner. I despise complicated looking, mile long instructions or ingredient lists for recipes!

Simple Foods has also created a line of healthy mixes such as pancake, cornbread, brownie, and cakes. All gluten free! You can also purchase this cup-4-cup flour from Simple Foods if you prefer that above mixing it yourself.

I’ve found that one, 1 lb. 8 oz.package of Bob’s Red Mill brown rice flour equals 5 cups. Also, one, 1 lb. package Bob’s Red Mill brand Tapioca flour equals 3 ¹/³ cups.

I’ve successfully used this flour as a replacement in many recipes. I even use it to thicken gravy, although it is a bit gritty. I haven’t used it in yeast recipes yet, but want to try it out sometime.

And I have two favorite recipes of ours that I wanted to share in time for the holidays. Although a bit last minute for Thanksgiving, I admit.

First off is a delicious pumpkin coffee cake recipe I revised. It is super moist and so melt in your mouth delicious!

This pecan pie bar recipe is one I tried out many times to get it to perfection. Ok, it’s not absolutely perfect, but I’m thrilled to have a delicious pecan pie bar recipe without using corn syrup!! And these are 100% husband approved!